Monday, January 4, 2010

What is working and what isn't?

There is no time better than the beginning of a new year to take some refelection time to see what is working great in your life and what is not. If there are things that you are not happy with or that are draining you in some way it is a good time to take a look on how to improve those areas of your life.

I have been reflecting upon 2009 and what worked for me and what doesnt anymore. One committment I make to myself in this new year is to not compromise myself anymore when it comes to all relationships. Last year was a year full of not being true to myself in order to please someone else or allowing others to be very selfish with me and my time. No more in the new year. I realize it feels bad and I feel a drain of energy the more I allow that to happen.

2010 for me is about becoming more true to my authentic self. Loving myself more and honoring what is best for me first and foremost. Because as history has shown me time and time again, the more you compromise yourself and your ideals, the less you can give and serve others in your life.

So ask yourself as we begin the new year, what is working in your life? What do you feel happy about? What do you feel good about? And on the flip side, what is draining you? Is there something you can do about it? Is there someone you can talk to about it? Is there some sort of positive change that can be made?

I wish you all the courage to take step forward and become the leading role in each of your lives.

In gratitude,

Asha

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